People change; experiences, events, other people, we all have a life that is somehow interconnected with everyone else on this 3rd rock from the sun. Regardless of what the experience is or was or will be, we all have the potential to learn from them and found out who we really are, or are becoming.
Recently, a friend will be accomplishing one of life’s miracles and someone in particular will be sharing the burden of that miracle, the story behind it is long and treacherous so I will not go into details, but know that it has turned someone into what they are not. Hateful, deceitful, angry, depressed, and other things I can’t explain follow this person, was it the sacrifice of love that drove them mad, probably; was it a series of heartbreaks in the long line of events that led to this day, maybe; after all this we still do not take into consideration how much we grow withier it be bad or good, we all need to observe what is happening around us.
The recipient was forced to take action to behold certain expectations and it seems that the other person was extremely taken by the fact of one’s attitude toward the situation, did not know how to react since bitterness did not work, and tried a friendly approach, possible salvage any remnants of a friendship that was left.
I may have confused you with all the non-specific examples but my point is that we all are in this world given choices and those choices lead us to different opportunities, our experiences have a hand in defining who we are, may it be good or bad or nether, and we need to learn from what is around us to really grasp ourselves, look back at what you have accomplished, failed, lost and gained, where do you stand, are you happy?, sad? What can you better yourself? Just realize that what you do affects someone else and like ripples in a pond scattered across the surface, they branch out only to come back some way and in some form.
The only truth is that the past is past and we live in the present to focus on the future, maybe we focus too much, no matter what you do, it wil
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